Adam and Eve, Happily married ?
Eve asked Adam “Why do you love me ?”
“I won’t talk to you” replies the angry Eve.
The disputes might have come to us in heritance from Adam and Eve.
When we fall in love, the whole world seems to be a beautiful place. We are cheerful, enjoy everything.There’s nobody more trustworthy than him. We confide in him.
Then days pass. Your relationship grows. You get committed or get married. You are happy.
The after some time, gradually things starts changing. Your partner’s certain things start annoying you. Then there are arguments. Arguments get into fights. Suddenly you feel this is not the same person whom you have loved.
When once, his larger problems were trivial for you, now even his trivial problems starts annoying you.
When once, you were an open book for him, now you feel he is a closed book for you.
When once, he was the only trustworthy for you, now nothing could be confided to him.
The interesting part here is, your partner feels same for you.
I want a life without quarrels, only peace and happiness.
But the question is, Is it really possible? But when I look at my parents, I am relieved. They are with each other for 26 years, still happy with each other.
Because they know the secret to happy marriage. Whenever there was a argument, one of them takes the back seat. Else in no time it may turn out into big fight. But off course, there should be understanding between the two.
Down the line, these fights seems so small, and to think a fight over the issue seems funny. Isn’t it ?
Written for Sunday Sribbling:Trust